Discovers and explores God's hidden and not-so-hidden qualities in the lives of our dogs.
God Backwards?
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
A Humble Birth
Thursday, August 30, 2012
A Repurposed Life
Friday, March 16, 2012
Obedience Training
I remember watching old clips of the Ed Sullivan show and one of the acts that fascinated me was the man with the spinning plates. Eight to ten poles stood erect before him and on each he would place a single plate. With a gentle wave of his hand, he would start one spinning on top of the pole. He would then place a second plate on another pole and start that one spinning. He’d sweep his hand again over the first plate to continue its rotation and move on to a third. This process would continue until he had every plate successfully spinning. In a graceful dance that, at times, bordered on panic, he’d bounce from one wobbling plate to the next in a desperate attempt to keep all plates twirling in perpetual motion. I watched anxiously as one plate slowed, wobbling precariously on its perch, only to be quickly attended to and sent on its circular way. This sort of gives you a rough idea of what it’s like teaching a puppy obedience class.
The puppies clumsily bound in the door on that first day with their human companions dutifully in tow. Each fuzzy body wags in excitement as the moms and dads desperately try to get their budding prodigies attention. As class begins, I bounce from one frustrated owner to the next, showing them how to capture a puppies fleeting attention span with various bits of hot dog, cheese or a squeaky toy. It works, for a while. About four pups down the line and the first loses it again. After a few minutes, the newness dies down, the human counterparts regain some semblance of control, all plates are spinning and we start the class.
Sit is generally the first behavior taught and to most pups, it’s the “go-to” behavior. They pick it up quickly, usually offering it up at the sound of a opening treat bag without the word “sit” being uttered. Then there are others who bounce around like they’re spring loaded; their tiny butts occasionally grazing the ground but too excited to place it there on a permanent basis. As the weeks progress, the puppies mature and are active participants. They now sit and lie down; wait and stay but only if the reward is worth it. A warm hot dog or bit a cheese and the puppy is like putty in your hand but a stale cheerio or bit of biscuit and you’ve lost them. The world around them is much too interesting and the obedience lesson is often derailed.
I couldn’t help but think about how closely that models my own obedience to God the Father. When I first began my life as a new Christian, I was eager to please. I read my Bible with a voracious appetite. I thought about my actions and whether they were pleasing to God. I sat, I rolled over, I lied down. But as I continued on my Christian walk , I begun to get distracted. Beth Moore, in one of her Bible studies writes, “if the devil can’t make you bad, he’ll make you busy.” How true. In my busy-ness, I’m distracted by things that don’t matter and disobedience creeps in. The Bible gets put aside for an extra workout, I say words and do things without thinking of the consequences. And in turn, the blessings of God drift further away. Joy and peace are replaced with frustration and regret. In Exodus, the Israelites were promised a new land “flowing with milk and honey”. It was there, right in front of them only a few miles away so why did it take another 40 years for them to arrive in Canaan? Disobedience. Questioning God and His plan. Losing trust in the One who had freed them from slavery in Egypt, disregarding the caring Father who provided manna and water when they cried out for sustenance, turning away from the Shield and Rock who rescued them from the hand of their enemies. Their disobedience created distance between themselves and God’s blessings. In God’s wonderful grace, however, the blessing was never taken away. Their arrival in Canaan was simply postponed while they worked through their disobedience. In the same way, a puppy will see the hot dog in your hand, it will hear the instruction to “sit”, it will want that tasty treat but it will jump up and spin around and bark. Chances are, you begin to get frustrated and say the command again and again. You plead, “all you have to do is SIT and you will get this treat, please....just sit!” Sound familiar? The blessing is still there, it’s just waiting for us to simply settle down and sit. Lucky for us, God is patient.
God is pleased when our walk with Him is steady and sure. How proud are we when our dogs are on their best behavior, listening to our every command? We shower them with love and praise for their obedience but it is often short lived. Obedience takes practice. I often remind people as they and their pups say goodbye at the end of their final class, that obtaining solid obedience takes a lifetime of work. They have to continue honing their dogs obedience skills in more challenging environments. The same goes for us. Obedience is easy when we are walking into church on Sunday morning, but we have to practice in more challenging situations. We have to continually know what obedience looks like by studying Scripture and practice it throughout our lives. For instance, trusting God when things appear to be spiraling out of control and remembering His promise, “to never leave (us) or forsake (us).”
What is the ultimate blessing that awaits us when we obediently live our life for Christ? An eternity spent with the One who modeled the ultimate act of obedience. Following His Father’s will that lead him to death on the cross. Jesus laments in Matthew 26:38, ”My soul is very sorrowful, even to death...” His obedience was going to mean intense physical pain, false charges, and the betrayal of even his closest companions. Matthew 26: 39 continues, “And going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.” Even if the will of his Father meant death on a cross. But Jesus knew that death wasn’t the reward for his obedience but eternal life and not only His, but ours as well. He was willing to accept the suffering and the humiliation for our salvation. Jesus’ exemplified unwavering obedience in life, and in His death was the final sacrifice which wiped away our sins and allowed us access to our Heavenly Father. What a blessing that flowed from that single act of selfless obedience!
Obedience is not easy. From the moment Eve’s teeth sunk into the apple, we humans have been grappling with our choices. In His tender mercy, God does not demand perfection. He lets us tug on the leash, break our stays a few seconds early, and occasionally lie down when we were asked to sit. However, if we continue to look to the cross and remember Jesus’ example of perfect obedience, it can help us to remember the tremendous blessing that His obedience bought for us.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
In A Dog's Age
Number 47 on the list of things I admire about dogs--and it’s a lengthy list mind you--they have no qualms with Father Time. You will never hear a dog moan over their bursitis or belly ache about their bunions. They won’t bemoan the way they used to be able to lift a couch up over their heads while they struggle to open a jar of mayo -- light of course, they’re watching their cholesterol. They just don’t seem to give two hoots about growing old. After all, a dog’s average life span is 12.8 years, why waste even .8 of it complaining when you could be sniffing the ground under the kitchen table for a stray Cheerio? God has blessed dogs with an ignorance of age. They seize each new day given to them without concern of failing strengths or gravity’s cruel joke on their appearance.
When I first met Dana, my former neighbor’s aging Golden, I was not prepared for what the hands of time had done to her face. I was told she had some fatty tumors but as Dana rounded the corner and ambled forward to meet me, a long, gray drooping tumor swayed back and forth like a giant fleshy pendulum from the side of her face. If she was embarrassed by my look of shock and horror, she didn’t show it. She simply continued forward with her head held high and gently licked my hand before retiring to a sunny corner to resume her afternoon nap. My neighbor seemed more embarrassed about it than Dana did. She quickly assured me that it was painless and more life- threatening to put Dana under for surgery to remove it than to simply leave it hang. So hang it did and Dana was fine with that. It’s just one of those things that happens with time and her peace with it made me ashamed of my constant struggle to hide a barely perceptible age spot. There’s no vanity in the dog world. They are blissfully unaware of the droopy lids and sagging neckline. Dogs don’t go running for the Grecian Formula in order to cover the graying that gradually appears around their mouthes. In Proverbs 16:31, it reads, “Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is gained in a righteous life” We are called to embrace our graying tresses. The Bible calls it a “crown” and who wouldn’t want to wear a crown? But the world tells us otherwise. Perhaps that’s why dogs don’t care, they don’t have to stand in line at the grocery store and tolerate the seductive stares of the beautiful people from the covers of Cosmo and Glamour. They are immune to the constant calls to stay young and fit from countless infomercials. But I have no doubt they enjoy the runs and walks we take them on as we desperately try to do just that. They gladly run beside us as we try to out run the clock and they do it with their gray hair flowing as we tuck ours under a baseball cap until our next salon appointment.
It’s not only a dog’s ambivalence toward the superficial physical changes that happen as they age that impress me but their mental attitude towards it as well. Dogs perpetually think they’re two. At a bounce of a ball or the sound of an opening chip bag, my dog Deion who is the human equivalent age of 56, will spring from his bed and run to where the action is. It’s a conditioned response that refuses to fade with time. Granted, that spring is a little less sure and quick as it used to be but the point is, he is always up for a change in the game plan. His energy is always enthusiastically pursuing those things that bring him joy. Age is not an impediment. Ecclesiastes 8:15 tells us, “And I commend joy, for man has nothing better under the sun but to eat and drink and be joyful, for this will go with him in his toil through the days of his life that God has given him under the sun.” There is joy to be had at any age, just watch your dog as he goes through his days under the sun and you would swear the water that fills his bowl is from the fountain of youth.
Dogs are living, breathing examples of the fact that God calls us to embrace our lives and His calling for it -- even as we age. It’s easy to look ahead with the bright optimism of a young and healthy twenty-year old and feel that we can do anything to which God calls us. However, it seems we heed less and less God’s calling as we age. Perhaps we think we aren’t physically capable of accomplishing much but what we have in later years is experience and the wisdom of age. “Wisdom is with the aged, and understanding in length of days” (Job 12:12) Qualities our world today values less and less but in God’s eyes, it’s a treasured gift and is of immeasurable value. Proverbs 16:16 reminds us, “How much better to get wisdom than gold! To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.”
Look to the Old Testament patriarchs. Noah was six hundred years old at the time of the flood. God did not call a young man to build the ark, after all, Noah had sons that could just have easily been commanded to construct the biggest boat of all time but he called Noah. Noah had wisdom and righteousness. He had the integrity to stand up against the tirade of nay sayers and scoffers that surrounded him daily. He wasn’t worried about how he appeared to the world as a younger man might, his only concern was being obedient to God. Abraham was ninety-nine years old and childless when God told him that he would be the father to a multitude of nations. Even Abraham’s wife Sarah had to laugh when she overheard that she would become a new mother while in her nineties but was quickly silenced when the angel told her, “Is anything too hard for the Lord?” (Gen. 18:14). Genesis 21 goes on to read, “Now the Lord was gracious to Sarah as he had said, and the Lord did for Sarah what he had promised. Sarah became pregnant and bore a son to Abraham in his old age, at the very time God had promised him.” (21:1) Age is not a barrier if God calls you to a particular task for he will give you all that you need to fulfill it. Strength, endurance, energy and time; God will provide the provision. How else could a man as old as Moses was survive the plagues of Egypt and a 40 year trek in the desert?
God grants each and every one of our days according to his perfect purpose and will. Whether we are 9 or 90, God can and will use us if we trust and obey. Don’t ever believe you are too old to leap off the couch if God bounces the ball.